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Remember the feeling of a new relationship? Butterflies in your belly, your heart skipping beats, the daydreaming that made you lose several trains of thought?  What happens when all that ceases to exist? Often times after quite a few years of courtship or marriage this becomes reality.  We start viewing our mate just as that, a mate, sort of like a ship mate.  You work together as a team because you know that that is what you have to do to make the ship sail, however, romantically there may be nothing there( or at least you think nothing is there.)  Women and men are all victims of this cycle.  Yes sometimes people do fall out of love with each other, however, I believe that we let ourselves fall out of love.  Relationships are work, you have to put in time and money not to mention compromise, understanding and unconditional love.  In many relationships people choose to give up, leading to breakup or divorce.  With a little effort and understanding these relationships are not all doomed.  You as an individul, have to understand that people change as you will too, this is human nature.  It is our job as partners to mould ourselves to each other by bending and leaning in unison.  The grass is not always greener on the other side, think about it, the same feelings you experienced with your partner are resurfacing with someone new, then what?  Years will go by and the same vicious cycle will come back to bite you!!  So my friends, think before you act because once you make your choice there is no going back.  Love is a cycle, you love you hate and then you love again.

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