Sep 07 2008
Unwelcoming your family
So it has come down to this, your family, extended family what have you, you just can’t take their criticism and negative behavior. What to do? You simply cut ties. It sounds harsh, but honestly, until the day they can look you in the eye and truly apologize and stay out of your business, it must be done. I personally have cut ties with several members of my extended family, the constant arguments and backstabbing really tore at my spirit. I am an adult who has my own family and life, I cannot please every single member of this godforsaken family. The women are the worst, they are such hipocrits and evil spirited, constantly meddling in everyones life and comparing and competing with everyone. So I got some balls and made some calls, I basically put everyone in their place and bid them goodbye. No more parties, no more gatherings, no more Holidays, and I am definitely standing my ground. I feel bad for my parents whom silently suffer behind this mask of chaos, however, until everyone agrees to mind their own damn P’s and Q’s I will remain distant. i am who I am and my path is chosen by me, not you or anyone else, well maybe God has a hand in it, as far as my happiness goes, I have to watch out for me and my family…there is no room for you!
